How should adult women choose sex toys? Don't be shy—we'll guide you through the process step by step!

Preface

First, let us ask you this: have you ever secretly browsed adult toy websites, only to be overwhelmed by the vast array of vibrators, dildos, and anal toys?

Rest assured, this is perfectly normal!

Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or married, using a few toys can not only make your body more sensitive but also help you find your own path to pleasure faster.

Today, we’ll walk you through how to buy your first toy without making mistakes.

What kind of sex toys do women really need?

First, a little background information:

Most of a woman's pleasure comes from the clitoris, while vaginal orgasms are experienced by only a small percentage of women.

Additionally, the clitoris has far more nerve endings than the vagina, so many women start with external stimulation when using toys for the first time.

Of course, whether it’s clitoral orgasm or vaginal orgasm, there’s no hierarchy of superiority. Pursue what you enjoy, and don’t let online opinions sway you.

Clitoral vibrator (also known as egg vibrator)

When it comes to a woman's first sex toy, many people start with a small clitoral vibrator.

Why do so many people start with this one?

Because it's perfect for beginners! It doesn't need to be inserted, and can stimulate the clitoris through vibration or suction. Many women experience their first orgasm with this toy.

Suitable for

• Women who want to experience clitoral orgasms
• Women who have never used adult toys before
• Couples who want to add some excitement to foreplay

Features

• Compact design, easy to hide and store
• Some models are shaped like cosmetics or roses, so they won't look out of place on a desk
• External stimulation, no pressure or pain from insertion, making it very user-friendly for first-time users.

Tips

If you live with family and are concerned about being discovered, choose a design resembling a rose flower—even if seen, it won’t be awkward.

For first-time use, start with a model offering multiple vibration settings, begin with the lowest setting, and gradually increase intensity.

Bestvibe Rose Suction Clitoral Stimulator

£41.02

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Vibrator

When you've grown accustomed to the stimulation of an egg vibrator and are looking for something new, the vibrator comes to the rescue.

What exactly is the difference between a vibrator and an egg vibrator?

Vibrating wands are primarily designed to explore vaginal orgasms, using vibration, rotation, or even back-and-forth motion to stimulate the vaginal interior or G-spot.

Suitable for

• Women who are already familiar with clitoral orgasms and want to explore more bodily sensations.
• Those who want to play with their boyfriend to add some spice.

Reverie - 3 Thrusting & Vibration 7 Sucking 10 Tapping G Spot Vibrator

£35.66

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There are many types of vibrating wands:

• G-spot wand: The head is slightly curved upward, specifically designed to locate the G-spot.
• Rotating bead vibrator: Features raised dots and rotating beads on the shaft to increase friction and stimulation.
• Realistic dildo: Shaped like a real penis, providing a stronger sense of immersion during use.
• AV vibrator: Features a larger head and broader vibration surface, but is primarily used for external stimulation rather than insertion.

Juliet 7 Thrusting Wiggling Rose Clit Stimulator G-spot Vibrator

£32.18

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Tips

Due to their relatively large size, storage requires caution; it is best to store them separately in a storage bag.

Multi-functional vibrator

Some women may wonder: Is it possible to stimulate the clitoris and vagina at the same time?

The answer is: Yes!

These toys are often designed to be quite complex, for example: the front end can vibrate inside the body, while there is an additional small ear on the side that is responsible for tapping or sucking the clitoris.

Some even include a tongue-licking mode, and there are designs that can sway.

Suitable for

• Women who have grown bored with single-stimulation toys and seek more diverse combinations
• Those who wish to use it with a partner to enhance sexual pleasure

Advantages

• Can stimulate multiple areas simultaneously, easily achieving ‘dual orgasms.’
• Some models allow mode switching, such as alternating between vibration and suction, for flexible use.

Tips

Multi-functional wands typically have a distinctive appearance (obviously recognisable as sex toys) and do not resemble ordinary objects.

If you are concerned about family members discovering them, it is advisable to store them in a cabinet that is not frequently accessed.

Romy - Rose Rotation Tongue Licking Clitoral Stimulator & Flapping G-spot Vibrator

£38.99

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Conclusion

Ultimately, sex toys are tools that help us understand our bodies better and make our lives more interesting.

Once you find a model you like at Bestvibe, enjoy it boldly, explore it slowly, and find the spot that really makes your whole body heat up and your heart race.

That way, you'll be one step closer to true sexual confidence.

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